J.S. Simpson & Associates

Customized coaching, action planning, and dance for the life and work you were created for.

J.S. Simpson & Associates

Customized coaching and action Planning for

the Life Paragraphand Work You Were Created for.

Customized coaching, action planning, and dance

for the life and work you were created for.

We know that you want to experience genuine fulfillment.

To achieve that, you need to understand how to reach what you're longing for.

The problem is everything you’ve tried so far hasn’t worked and you don’t know why, which makes you feel frustrated.

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You deserve a solution that shows you the unique path you were created for.

We understand what it’s like to strive and succeed, and still feel mis-fit; leaving you drained and unfulfilled.

Which is why our clients are saying;

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“Mr. Simpson has helped me scale my life’s mountains. I had a hectic lifestyle, but I now have more time on my hands for my family and others. Because of his help, I am more at peace with my life.”

Joshua M.

“I had questions about my purpose in life, and Jeff honestly helped me navigate those. I have been finding more joy in motherhood and spending quality time with my family.”

Darianne M.

“I felt very lonely and felt I couldn’t afford necessities/wants or enjoy things with others. It was very frustrating. [After] My life became more purposeful. I felt relieved, happy, secure and no longer lonely.”

Alex W.

“Before you helped me, I had no interest nor desire in reaching my goal. It caused me to experience low self-esteem. [Your] Teamwork gave me great motivation and a positive attitude. It benefited me as I accomplished my goal.”

Gina W.

“In private, there were many tears and much doubt as to my worth. Some struggles had been with me since childhood, others because of failed relationships in adulthood. After, I am more confident and relaxed, and don't second-guess myself. I know my worth.”

Rebecca B.

Here’s how we do it:

Discover

You deserve a plan as unique as you are. Our approach includes conversations around your results of selected personal assessments, so we have a clear understanding of who you were created to be and why.

Plan

Once we understand your unique design, we can work together to create a customized plan including our 5F Framework: Faith, Family, Fitness, Fellowship and Field.

Act

True transformation comes from action. We're here to guide you, and with our supportive community, you'll find the encouragement and motivation to follow your unique path toward the fulfillment you deserve.

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Jeff Simpson

Jeffrey S. Simpson, known for his unconventional approach, empowers change seekers to unlock their unique gifts and achieve lasting fulfillment. His signature processes—the . 1% Effect℠, Be EmPowerful℠, and the 5F Framework℠ - Faith, Family, Fitness, Fellowship, and Field - help others break free from societal norms and align with their true purpose, much like the harmony and balance found in dance.

Jeff is a Maverick and strategic advisor with nearly 37 years of service in and with the U.S. Navy, including over 15 years of innovative leadership at The Johns Hopkins University Applied Physics Laboratory.

He holds graduate degrees in divinity and ministry, a bachelor’s in religion, and an associate’s in engineering. He is pursuing CliftonStrengths and Enneagram certifications, Life and Leadership Coaching certifications, and credentialing from the International Coaching Federation (ICF). As a competitive dancer passionate about ballroom, rhythm, Latin, and social dancing, Jeff incorporates the principles of rhythm and balance into his coaching, guiding clients to find their unique flow in life and work.

LEARN MORE ABOUT JEFF'S BOOK

about

Jeff Simpson

Jeffrey S. Simpson, known for his unconventional approach, empowers change seekers to unlock their unique gifts and achieve lasting fulfillment. His signature processes—the .1% Effect℠, Be EmPowerful℠, and the 5F Framework℠ - Faith, Family, Fitness, Fellowship, and Field - help others break free from societal norms and align with their true purpose, much like the harmony and balance found in dance.

Jeff is a Maverick and strategic advisor with nearly 37 years of service in and with the U.S. Navy, including over 15 years of innovative leadership at The Johns Hopkins University Applied Physics Laboratory.

He holds graduate degrees in divinity and ministry, a bachelor’s in religion, and an associate’s in engineering. He is a Strengths Champion certified coach and pursuing certification in Enneagram and credentialing from the International Coaching Federation (ICF). As a competitive dancer passionate about ballroom, rhythm, Latin and social dancing, Jeff incorporates the principles of rhythm and balance into his coaching, guiding clients to find their unique flow in life and work.

LEARN MORE ABOUT JEFF'S BOOK

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Lady Gaga - You have to be unique and different and shine in your own way.

You Were Made to Shine: Lady Gaga’s Journey to Living As She was Created to Be

Maverick Unleashed

January 16, 2025•4 min read

You Were Made to Shine: Lady Gaga’s Journey to Living As She was Created to Be

In a 21st century world that constantly tells us who we should be, it takes courage to break free from societal expectations and step into the person we were uniquely created to be. Lady Gaga, one of the most iconic and successful artists of our time, knows this battle well.

Despite her fame, she has spoken openly about the toll of trying to live up to others’ expectations. In an interview shared by Entrepreneur in March 2023, Gaga explained that embracing her unique design meant realizing, “You have to be unique and different and shine in your own way.”

This profound shift didn’t just change her career. It transformed her life. Gaga’s story is a powerful reminder that true fulfillment comes not from meeting societal standards but from aligning with who God made you to be.

The Hidden Costs of Living for Others’ Expectations

For Gaga, the cost of living others’ expectations directly impacted her emotional well-being, her relationships, and loss of her identify. I know this all too well. Like, Lady Gaga, I lived according to what society expected of me, which was counter to my design, so I resonate with her struggles:

Emotional Exhaustion: The Weight of “Should” - Lady Gaga has shared how the pressure to conform left her feeling drained and disconnected. Trying to fit into someone else’s mold, whether as an artist or a person, strips us of our energy and joy.

Societal conditioning convinces us that working harder and meeting every expectation will lead to happiness. But the truth is, chasing “shoulds” leads to exhaustion, not fulfillment.

Ask yourself: Are you living by what others expect, or by who you were created to be?

Strained Relationships: Losing Connection to Others - When we focus on external validation, our relationships often suffer. Gaga has spoken about how her early career success came at a cost to her personal connections. Living out of alignment with our purpose leaves little room for meaningful relationships.

Ask yourself: Are your connections thriving, or are they strained by the weight of trying to be someone you’re not?

Loss of Identity: Forgetting Who You Are - For Gaga, the turning point came when she realized she wasn’t being true to herself. Her decision to embrace her unique gifts and personality allowed her to reconnect with her purpose and passion.

When we lose sight of who we are, life becomes a performance, leaving us feeling hollow and purposeless. But when we choose to live as we were meant to, we step into a life of clarity and impact.

Ask yourself: Are you living as you were created to be, or performing for someone else’s approval?

Breaking Free and Choosing to Shine

Lady Gaga’s story reminds us that the grind of societal expectations is not where fulfillment lies. True transformation begins when you embrace your uniqueness, let go of the “shoulds,” and shine in the way you were created to.

You don’t have to wait for a breaking point to start living as the person you were created to be. The first step is recognizing the toll of misalignment and choosing a new path.

Are You Living Out of Alignment?

The signs of misalignment often creep in gradually, leaving us disconnected and unfulfilled which often leads to burnout. Learn to recognize the red flags with my free Signs You’re Grinding Toward Burnout Information Sheet.

This guide will help you:

Spot the Warning Signs: Learn how endless work hours, irritability, and physical decline indicate you’re on the path to burnout.
Understand the Emotional Toll: Recognize how burnout fractures relationships and leaves you feeling isolated.
Recognize Loss of Purpose: Understand how feeling disconnected from what once drove you is a critical warning sign of burnout and why it leaves you feeling spiritually and emotionally adrift.

Don’t wait until the cost is too high. Start today.

Choosing to Shine

Lady Gaga’s journey shows that no amount of success or external validation can replace the joy of living as you were designed. True fulfillment comes when you step into the person you were uniquely created to be—courageously, boldly, and unapologetically.

You were made to shine in your own way.

So, let me ask you: Where are societal expectations taking its biggest toll in your life? What’s one small step you can take today to begin realigning with the life you were created to live?

Join me every Wednesday at 1 PM ET for Maverick Conversations - a space where we uncover why so many high achievers feel stuck and explore bold steps to rediscover the life you were uniquely created for.

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Don’t wait, this is your opportunity to take the first step toward flourishing in every area of your life.

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Jeffrey S. Simpson

Jeffrey S. Simpson, known for his unconventional approach, empowers change seekers to unlock their unique gifts and achieve lasting fulfillment. His signature processes—the .1% Effect℠, Be EmPowerful℠, and the 5F Framework℠ - Faith, Family, Fitness, Fellowship, and Field - help others break free from societal norms and align with their true purpose. Jeff is a Maverick and strategic advisor with nearly 37 years of service in and with the U.S. Navy, including over 15 years of innovative leadership at The Johns Hopkins University Applied Physics Laboratory. He holds graduate degrees in divinity and ministry, a bachelor’s in religion, and an associate’s in engineering. He is a Strengths Champion certified coach and pursuing certification in Enneagram and credentialing from the International Coaching Federation (ICF). He is also a competitive dancer passionate about ballroom, rhythm, and social dancing.

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